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October 27, 2021 by Ron Simkins 4 Comments

Questioning God? (#4 – “My God, My God, Why Have You Forsaken Me?”)

Let’s return to the “Why” question in the Bible that is probably the most troubling one to many who seek God and to many who are trying to follow Jesus the best we know how. It first occurs in Psalm 22:1 and then again in Mark 15:34—“And at the ninth hour Jesus cried with a loud voice, ‘Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani?’ which means, ‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’” Both the Psalmist, and Jesus, profess life-long trusting in God as well as life-long participation in the faith of those Jewish believers who preceded them. And yet, both the Psalmist, and Jesus, experience the terror of not experiencing God at all when God’s presence is most wanted and the felt-need is the deepest.

No wonder the prayer coming from Jesus’ mouth is so often explained away rather than faced squarely. Jesus, the most trusting and most trustworthy human who ever lived experiences being abandoned by God when he most wants to be reassured of God’s presence! Ouch! What hope then is there for a person like me—or you?

Think about each word in the phrase. “My”—Jesus is still talking directly to God and claiming God as his God. “God”—the one who is supposed to be in charge of history and overseeing our lives during troubled times. “Why?”—this experience just doesn’t seem to make sense to these two faithful Jewish believers. “Have”—present tense, this is a deeply felt “right now” experience.  “You”—of all my relationships, “you” were the one I thought would always be there when I most needed you. “Forsaken”—abandonment by those you love and by those who love you is one of the deepest wounds we humans can experience. “Me?”—the Psalmist, and especially Jesus, rightly wonder how this can happen to someone who trusts God so much! It seems that even though Jesus clearly saw the cross coming, he did not expect this experience of feeling totally abandoned. It is very real, and it is really hurting. “Why?”

As Paul Harvey used to say so dramatically—“And, now for the rest of the story . . . .” – next time.

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  1. Donna Hagerty-Payne says

    October 28, 2021 at 3:46 pm

    Well, just as I was following your thinking intensely, you post a “to be continued” moment.

    This subject is one I have never made sense of yet. I look forward to reading part 2!

    Love, Donna

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    • Ron Simkins says

      November 21, 2021 at 7:26 pm

      Seems that God knows there is a potential refining process in our suffering–when it is placed in God’s hands–that is beyond our understanding, but not beyond experiencing. Part of that “peace that passes understanding” I guess.

      Reply
  2. Karyn says

    October 28, 2021 at 3:50 pm

    WHEW! Yes!! This is one of the most unsettling passages in the Bible for me. I appreciate the way you move through Jesus’s words one-by-one. It helps me slow down and sit with it, rather than run away from the profound discomfort of it. Of all the words Jesus knew from the sacred scripture, these were the ones that captured his experience in this crucial moment of his life. Your statement here resonates deeply, “Jesus, the most trusting and most trustworthy human who ever lived experiences being abandoned by God when he most wants to be reassured of God’s presence! Ouch! What hope then is there for a person like me—or you?” Thank you for this. I am eager to read your next post!

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    • Ron Simkins says

      November 21, 2021 at 7:23 pm

      Thanks Karyn. Sitting with these words is both terrifying and reassuring isn’t it?

      Reply

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